22 Things I’ve Learnt So Far In My 20’s

I can’t believe I’m 22 this month! I still feel 18 deep down in my soul. The 18-year-old party gal who went out every weekend drank copious treble vodka red bull’s and didn’t have a care in the world.

In reality, my 18th birthday was 4 years ago now and well, now I feel like a married woman with a career. If I even so much as smell a treble vodka red bull it instantly makes me wretch and I actually couldn’t think of anything worse than stopping out till 5 am every weekend. I feel so adult-y. I wouldn’t swap my current situation for any of my past though, I’m very content with my life.

I feel like it was only yesterday that I learnt to drive, left sixth form and got myself a job but it was actually AGES, years, ago now. I say this all the time but time really does fly by when you’re growing up! Being an adult is 100% so overrated but it does come with its perks, like being able to buy alcohol whenever you want!

I realise I’m an adult when I find myself getting excited over candles, new pillows, nights in and nice wine. I think to myself, how did this happen?! When did I become a granny?!

I’ve learnt tons in the last three years of being officially in my 20’s (god that sounds weird!). I’ve made a hella’ lot of mistakes, learnt so many lessons and most importantly matured into a young woman, if I do say so myself.

I thought I’d put together a post on the important (some not so important) things I’ve learnt so far on my journey to adulthood so here ya’ go…

1. Appreciate time. Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.

2. Craig David has the voice of God. This Is: Craig David playlist on Spotify is the ultimate mood lifter playlist. You won’t regret downloading it!

3. The Spice Girls taught me how to deal with heartbreak, massively.

4. Your Mam will forever be your best friend and soul mate.

5. Some people aren’t who you think they are. They don’t have the same intentions as you and they will shit on you and then you just have to pick yourself up and move on.

6. Beans on toast is the ultimate comfort food.

7. It’s less important to have loads of friends and more important to REAL ones.

8. Everything happens for a reason! When one door closes another one opens.

9. My figure will never be the same as it was when I was 18.

10. Getting 8 hours sleep is so important!

11. Being in a relationship makes you gain weight.

12. Exercise is amazing for your mental health.

13. It’s crucial to have a pack of 6 mini original Babybels in your fridge!

14. It’s not embarrassing to buy tampons, no one’s gonna’ judge you or stare at you in Asda.

15. You can’t please or be liked by everyone. #hatersgonhate.

16. Happiness is the most important thing in life.

17. Having a savings account is very a very sensible thing to have. It’s handy and useful for those rainy days, like when you need a new tyre.

18. It’s not the end of the world when you crash your car.

19. Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.

19. There’s more to life than social media, those gals with the tight abs, tanned bodies and teeny waists do not exist in real life. Don’t compare yourself!

20. Be fearless in the pursuit of what set your soul on fire.

21. Never give up on something you really want.

22. Having a bath will solve all of your problems.

36 Comments

  • Reply Katie April 11, 2018 at 8:31 am

    Beans on toast is the best meal in the world and your Mam will forever be your best friend!! You’re still so young. Wish I was 22!! Katie x

    • Reply Alice April 11, 2018 at 8:42 am

      How true though?! I know I know haha! x

  • Reply caitylis April 11, 2018 at 9:18 am

    Number 11! Being in a relationship makes you gain weight, this is SO true. I think because you sit down together and watch films/tv and one of you is always hungry so the other just eats too!
    Much love, Caitylis x x

    • Reply Alice April 11, 2018 at 11:11 am

      Haha so true! xx

  • Reply Nelly Elliott April 11, 2018 at 9:33 am

    I so wish I had written something like this when I was 22 to look back on. Now I am 30 I look back and think how much has changed, but in my heart I always feel 21.

    • Reply Alice April 11, 2018 at 11:11 am

      Time flies when you’re having fun!

  • Reply Sarah April 11, 2018 at 10:07 am

    number 1 is so true, i have turned 32 as of April and ive had a bit of a nervous breakdown over it, i dont want to get older and I hate that all these memories i have of my youth are now over 15 years old, time catches up with you.

    id love to be 22 again. you look beautiful!

    • Reply Alice April 11, 2018 at 11:11 am

      Time certainly does! Thank you 🙂

  • Reply Rosie April 11, 2018 at 12:04 pm

    I’m 26 in May and I swear I’m actually 17!! These are amazing things you’ve learnt! I’m still learning so much about appreciating myself and those around me!

    • Reply Alice April 11, 2018 at 1:09 pm

      Where has the time gone!!

  • Reply Angela April 12, 2018 at 1:51 am

    Yaaas girl this outfit is fire! And the post…. so true and relatable! Number 15 is such an important one to learn.
    Enjoy being 22 babe!! We’re still so young, our priorities just shift a little. Xx

    • Reply Alice April 12, 2018 at 8:54 am

      Thanks Angela! xx

  • Reply Kelly-Anne April 12, 2018 at 9:12 am

    You look fantastic in these shots beautiful! I must admit a bath does solve all problems.

    • Reply Alice April 13, 2018 at 8:13 am

      Thank you!

  • Reply Prettiful Blog April 12, 2018 at 9:33 am

    I love this post Alice, so so true! I am 31, but still feel 21, haha!

    • Reply Alice April 13, 2018 at 8:14 am

      Thanks lovely!

  • Reply Mel April 12, 2018 at 9:36 am

    Happy birthday.
    You have some great things listed. Totally agree with them myself.

    http://littlemissmelanie.com

    • Reply Alice April 13, 2018 at 8:14 am

      Thank you!

  • Reply Katrina Frances April 12, 2018 at 10:53 pm

    I wish I’d done one of these posts for my 22nd birthday in January! I loved this, especially numbers 11, 12 and 22, they’re so relatable! xx

    • Reply Alice April 13, 2018 at 8:14 am

      Thanks Katrina! xx

  • Reply Stuart Forster April 13, 2018 at 11:00 am

    Happiness is indeed the most important thing in life. Here’s to lots of it!

    • Reply Alice April 13, 2018 at 11:50 am

      Sure is!

  • Reply Lisa April 13, 2018 at 2:40 pm

    As soon as you mentioned treble vodka I did an inwards heave. Good grief you can drink back then, I’m 25 now and I just want an iced coffee and rarely drink haha! I love this post it’s great to see how grown up you actually become x

    • Reply Alice April 16, 2018 at 1:28 pm

      Thanks Lisa! x

  • Reply Maisie April 13, 2018 at 4:28 pm

    Love this post so much! Numbers 4, 10, 16 and 20 resonate with me most!! x PS, I’m 24 this month and still feel 18 hahah! x

    • Reply Alice April 16, 2018 at 1:28 pm

      Haha! Thanks Maisie x

  • Reply Shauna April 13, 2018 at 5:23 pm

    Having a bath will solve all your problems is so me hahah! Also the one about exercise helping your mental health — that is so so true!
    Shauna | http://goddessguide.co.uk

    • Reply Alice April 16, 2018 at 1:29 pm

      Thanks Shauna! 🙂

  • Reply Gemma Louise April 13, 2018 at 5:50 pm

    I can’t believe how fast time goes once you hit your 20s… I’m 24 this year and I’ve graduated, had a child and started my own business! Crazy!

    • Reply Alice April 16, 2018 at 1:47 pm

      You go girl! That’s amazing! x

  • Reply Laura Kroczek April 13, 2018 at 7:57 pm

    I love these kind of posts! Also really stunning pictures! Xx

    • Reply Alice April 16, 2018 at 1:48 pm

      Thanks Laura! xx

  • Reply Jade Wilson April 13, 2018 at 8:00 pm

    I totally agree with the beans on toast! It is the best thing EVER!!!! Especially with cheese!! xx

    • Reply Alice April 16, 2018 at 1:49 pm

      Totally agree! xx

  • Reply Barry Stephen April 14, 2018 at 7:59 pm

    So it’s the relationship that’s to blame for my weight gain, not the beer and the pies? Time I did something about that!

    • Reply Alice April 16, 2018 at 1:50 pm

      Course not haha!

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